Does your partner want to leave you?

You’re probably looking for just the right words to say to your partner who wants to walk out the door. Your emotions will fight to try to save your relationship but there’s one word that you can say to your partner that will help you the most, it is the word, “See Ya!”

In human relationships trapping and manipulation will cause rebellion. Give your partner the best antidote by telling him/her to go and be happy.

I’ve referred to the movie, “The pursuit of Happyness” in one of my articles before. The brilliant scene is when the main character’s wife was so unhappy and critical of him that she wanted to leave town. His answer, “Go and be happy.” In other words, if you don’t want me or what we have, then whatever! Your loss not mine.

This kind of confidence will shake even the most determine drifting partner to the core. When you can stand completely unshaken by their desire to live their life without you, it kinda has to make em wonder what they meant to you all along.

And this is good. This person needs to wonder for a very long time what you are truly made of. If you get yourself together, get a different career, buy yourself a new place or achieve a certain level of success soon after he/she leaves you, then you’re the one who will laughin'.

A needy attitude will cause you to appear weak. Weakness is pitied, strength is admired. Stand up for yourself and tell your partner that you want more than someone who can’t love you back. You want true love and commitment and you are not willing to settle.

Tell em to go – say something like, “Go and do whatever your hearts desire because I'm going to live a great life without you.”

Nicole Gayle is the happy mother of two children and the author of the ebook, "What to Do When Your Partner Wants Out." Get instant download at http://www.whenyourpartnerwantsout.com/